Signs That You're Being Sexually Harassed at Work and What to Do Next
Reviewed by
CA Sunita Joshi · Chartered Accountant, CFP
Do you feel uncomfortable or threatened by a colleague's or superior's behavior at work, but are unsure if it's sexual harassment? You're not alone. Many Indian women face similar situations and struggle to recognize the signs or know how to respond. If you're feeling anxious, scared, or confused, know that you have the right to a safe and respectful work environment.
What You'll Need
- Courage
- Support from trusted friends or family
- Documentation of incidents
Recognize the Signs of Sexual Harassment
Sexual harassment can take many forms, including unwanted touching, comments, or gestures. It can also be subtle, such as being made to feel uncomfortable or excluded. Trust your instincts and pay attention to how you feel. If you feel like you're being treated unfairly or with disrespect, it's likely that something is wrong.
Keep in mind: Be careful not to put yourself in danger or compromise your safety
Talk to Someone You Trust
Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or colleague and tell them what's been happening. They can offer you emotional support, help you process your feelings, and provide guidance on what to do next. You can also consider speaking with a counselor or therapist who can provide you with confidential support.
Worth knowing: Choose someone who will listen without judgment and keep your conversation confidential
Be cautious about who you trust, as not everyone may have your best interests at heart
Have a specific question you can't ask anyone? Ask it anonymously — no name needed.
Report the Incident to Your Employer
If you feel comfortable doing so, report the incident to your employer or HR department. They are required by law to investigate and take action to prevent further harassment. Be prepared to provide details of the incident, including dates, times, and any witnesses. You can also ask for a copy of your company's sexual harassment policy and procedures.
Keep in mind: Be aware that reporting the incident may lead to consequences, such as retaliation or changes in your work environment
Seek Help from External Organizations
If you're not comfortable reporting the incident to your employer or if you need additional support, consider reaching out to external organizations that specialize in workplace sexual harassment. These organizations can provide you with guidance, support, and resources to help you navigate the situation.
Research organizations that are reputable and have experience in handling workplace sexual harassment cases
Be cautious of organizations that may not have your best interests at heart or may not be equipped to handle your case
Take Care of Yourself
Remember that taking care of yourself is essential during this time. Make sure to prioritize your physical and emotional well-being by getting enough rest, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you comfort and joy. Consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can help you process your feelings and develop coping strategies.
Keep in mind: Don't hesitate to seek help if you're feeling overwhelmed or struggling to cope
"Remember, your voice and boundaries matter, and it's okay to say no and seek help when you need it."
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Reviewed & Verified By
CA Sunita Joshi
Chartered Accountant, CFP
Certified Financial Planner for Women
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